You guys, I am getting married in like 60 days!! Like what even is this madness! Zachary and I are currently just waiting for our invites to finish printing, and then that is like the last BIG thing until the actual wedding day. I have been using The Knot app to keep track of our checklist of things to get down, and it is so weird to see the list get smaller and smaller of things to do. At the same time, it still feels like there is a million things to do, but that is how stuff like this goes I think.
I seriously am so excited to get married you guys. I NEVER thought that I would be getting married at 22, but here I am 60 away. I am going to try my hardest to keep this from turning into a sap fest, but I seriously just want to be married to Zac. I know our wedding day will be fun and special, but it will be NOTHING compared to the after. I get to spend the rest of my life with my favorite person that exists, and I just feel so lucky. I love having my person, and I honestly don't know what I would do without him. It is so weird to think that there was a time where we didn't know the other existed. Like seriously, how do we just happen upon these incredible humans that change our lives forever? It really is such an incredible thing.
To all of you that either are or have been a newlywed, do you have any advice or comments about newlywed life for this soon-to-be newlywed lady?
first of all, YAHOO!!! married life is seriously incredible. being a team and watching each other become better people through working hard at your relationship is incredibly rewarding. there is a richness to life that comes with sharing it. anyway that was really sappy, sorry.
ReplyDeletemy advice that i always give my girlfriends is, don't listen to people's advice! haha! you and zach know YOUR relationship, and so make up your own rules. do marriage your way! i think if you love each other and work at your relationship every day, there are no other constants that make a "good marriage." you guys know each other best. girl you're going to LOVE IT! i am so excited for you - being in love is the BEST.
I completely, 100% agree with Kayla. Your relationship is your own. All we heard was, "Oh the first year is the hardest!" And ended up having a blast. And ever since then all we've heard is, "Oh, after the first year, things will be so hard!" And we're just sitting here going, so which is it?! Because we still like each other a lot!
DeleteNot to say that we don't have challenges, but those are apart of life and everyone knows that. Well, okay, every reasonable person knows that haha. Every relationship is different. Some people will approve of yours and others will think you're doing it all wrong. Either way, that doesn't affect you, so just do what feels best for you guys. SO HAPPY FOR YOU!